Let the Right Crystal Find You: An Intuitive Mini-Guide

Let the Right Crystal Find You: An Intuitive Mini-Guide

If you’re here, maybe you’re feeling drawn to the world of crystals, but the question is … where to even begin? The world of crystals is so VAST, there are soooo many choices.. and it feels that they keep inventing new crystals every day!! It is sometimes hard to keep up with all of this, especially if you’re new and every choice feels exciting and mysterious. But - don’t worry! I’ve got for you few good -and tested!- ways to determine which one of the crystals is The One.

1) Go with the Feels


‘The Feels’ are my absolute favourite way to choose a crystal. They are my main Decision Makers, and I’ll especially recommend them when it comes to crystals. For me—no matter what my brain tries to tell me—my heart knows, and yours does too.
So, first - relax. Give yourself a moment to just be with the crystals. Spend a few moments focusing, softening, quieting your mind and letting your heart lead. Open yourself up and listen... You’ll begin to notice the crystals slowly open up to you and start to introduce themselves. Sometimes they are quiet, and sometimes they can be VERY LOUD! :) Some of them are more reserved, almost shy, while others have no problem starting the conversation right away. When standing before many, many, many options available - see which of them pulls you in. Which one keeps catching your eye? Which one do you keep gravitating towards, drawn back to it over and over? That magnetic pull? That’s the sign, that your heart and the crystal spirit made a connection.


PRO TIP: this method works with online shopping as well! While many sources recommend going to a metaphysical shop and feeling a crystal’s energy with your own hands, it’s not always accessible for everyone. Energy know no bounds - in time, and in space. Your intuitive senses are able to connect and feel the energy of crystals from anywhere on Earth. Just bring that relaxed focus, let the images and descriptions be deciphered by your heart... and follow The Feels :)

2) Start with an Intention


If you know what you’re looking for—like more love, joy, or just a bit of luck—then narrow your choices with that intention in mind. You can simply try asking your crystal seller for recommendations, or look up crystals associated with what you are looking for.
For online shopping, begin with a quick search, like “crystals for love,” and see your options. And I promise you - you will be suprised by the number of different gemstones to choose from, as there is no one ultimate Crystal of Love... There’s an entire family of them! Every single one can get the job done - with its own energy and style, so please don’t overthink it. From there, use the 'Feels' method to see which particular crystal you vibe with the most. Let the process be intuitive, noticing where your heart feels drawn.

Crystals got you back and will support you in anything you want to put your focus on. Protection Crystals, Energy Crystals, Crystals for Peace, Luck, Abundance... You can make your intention as specific as you like and need to. Maybe you’re looking for more motivation for workouts or sharper focus during exams - I know a crystal or two for that! Or maybe you are looking for a companion for more esoteric journeys like soul retrieval or ancestral connections? That can be done as well. Crystals are a deep, endless well of knowledge, each choice can reveal new, exciting possibilities, and every new discovery unlocks another branch of endless
potentials.



3) Try Your Zodiac Stone


Not sure what you’re looking for yet? No worries— start with a crystal linked to your zodiac sign! It’s an easy way to get into the world of crystals and self discovery. Also, - a good news for the ones affected by Decision Fatigue - the choice here is already pre-made for you, so you can relax!

So why go with the zodiac crystal? Spiritual seekers, alchemists, and mystics have spent lifetimes studying the physical and metaphysical properties of gemstones, crystals, and minerals, finding connections between them and the planets, stars, and constellations of the zodiac. Their studies reveal this intricate, beautiful connection between our Earth and the endless cosmos above. Its fascinating to think that these these earth-born treasures are the physical reflections of powerful, distant stars, their energy and virtues represented by them. They are all living beings, with their own consciousness and character—each one a unique presence, ready to connect and share its energy with you.

If you spend enough time talking to crystals, you’ll discover their unique personalities, traits, and quirks—and how they mirror the qualities of zodiac signs. For example Aquamarine is associated with Pisces. Both of them radiate energy of peace and tranquillity, while powerful Garnet is a reflection of Capricorn - the headstrong Sea Goat, that never gives up. After a while you will notice how your relationships with crystals resemble of the ones with actual people. It’s really fun!

The point is - you are already a part of it! The moment you were born - through your zodiac sign - the Universe assigned to you certain crystals as your allies on this journey. Think of your zodiac crystal as a “Starter Guide”, aligned with your cosmic DNA, and a natural place to start your self discovery. It’s a great place to begin if you’re feeling a bit lost in the selection.
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4) Go For The Pretty One!


Last one and definitely overlooked method, but go for the looks. Pick the crystal that’s pretty to you! Go for the one that catches your eye and matches your style and aesthetic. Crystals have a special kind of beauty, and there’s no need to feel bad about choosing one just because it’s lovely.

Please, don’t fall for the trap of shame. You might hear people say, “Don’t judge a book by its cover,” but with crystals, that attraction is part of the magic. I believe that if the gemstone had nothing to offer to you - you wouldn’t even notice its there! In the end, the key is to trust yourself and make a choice that feels authentic to you. Don’t let anyone else tell you what you should or shouldn’t like. This journey is personal. Trust that the crystal that feels right for you is already aligned with your journey.



If you are worried about making the wrong choice, be assured that there’s really no such thing as a wrong answer. Crystals are here to make life easier, not to complicate it. Hopefully my tips will make it easier for you to bring a bit of magic into your journey, and take the pressure off of you. There’s no “perfect” choice, only the one that feels right for you right now. Let your crystal journey be easy, intuitive, and filled with curiosity.

And... you know, this is a shared path—just as you might think you’re choosing the crystal, the crystal is also choosing you. Together, you’re creating a union of energies. You’ll share feelings, thoughts, hopes, and dreams, becoming true partners on this journey. I can’t wait for you to feel it for yourself! I’m so excited for all the magic that awaits you and for the incredible connections you’ll discover along the way. Don’t forget to keep me updated!!:)

- with Love -
Aga


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